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[joebanks]

So i don't post and things happen.

Mom's has another mass right under her skin, to be removed the 9th. The surgeon is still optimistic that this is all there is right now, but it's relentless. Cancer shouldn't strike children or 87 year old dementia patients; both are just as innocent.

#1son took his "friend" and refuge and moved out; i'm in shock, i thought he would be here when he was 30 - maybe he will be, i don't know.

It's springtime.

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[rafqa]

Well, good for him-- are they a couple now? I hope he didn't move out angry?

I'm so sorry about your mom. Agree that it's beyond wrong to have cancer and dementia. We're in constant fear of the shoe dropping on my mom-- she's having some pain right now-- and after what she's already been through, and in her condition... I don't know how I could endure it. I hope everything goes smoothly and pain-free for your mom, and does not cause her any prolonged worry.

[joebanks]

They are, i've seen her twice since they left; not sure what's going to happen. I think i've figured out, no one is good enough for my kids.

She doesn't worry at all; she doesn't know, i've talked to her about it because she can remember if she's been told about something and i don't want to walk into her room on Tuesday and tell her for the first time - "You're having surgery today".

what she worries about is weather anyone is doing her laundry or not.